Post by vectorman on Mar 23, 2018 10:45:30 GMT
Just to get something off my chest.. Everyone makes mistakes in that a mistake can be perceived as one if another is hurt by something you may have said, as ever it's all a matter of perspective. So by that very definition everyone makes mistakes. Something someone says could be offensive to me or you and may seem trivial to the person who said it, this does not mean they are wrong, better or worse a bad person, just different.. And we ourselves could equally say something deemed offensive to another. They may well turn around and say you're wrong a bad person and you need to apologise. The same as what you may have thought and said to another, it's swings and roundabouts. Someone may hurt us today, may tomorrow and we're continue to be hurt here and there and every day. Be that from an opinion a piece of banter or whatever it maybe.. This does not mean someone is not your friend is not a nice person for hurting you, that I'm sorry is being a little to precious..
If everyone went around highlighting every time they got hurt by another then we're all bad people who need to apologise and we'd spend nearly the entirety of our lives doing it. This is an unavoidable consequence of being a human being. We have a hard enough time as it is keeping our emotions in check.. I've been called a certain thing over and over lately and it's offensive, could very well have said stop, it's upsetting me and you're picking on me.. And I know they've delighted in saying it too.. It's the same thing I've been accused of but the thing is and I know it annoys people, none of us are innocent which is why I have this oh fuck it attitude that may pee people off.. I think we need to learn how to move on better sometimes because as said, none of us can control this, none of us are innocent not a single person lol (and I include myself in this)... It's being us being human. And guess what I feel hurt, don't mean I'm gonna hate everyone for it, though sometimes I do lol. I get over it eventually, this just ebbs and flows. Don't see people as being bad if they hurt me though, that's just barmy I'm sorry. As said, in that case we must all be bad..
I'm gonna go cry in the corner..
If everyone went around highlighting every time they got hurt by another then we're all bad people who need to apologise and we'd spend nearly the entirety of our lives doing it. This is an unavoidable consequence of being a human being. We have a hard enough time as it is keeping our emotions in check.. I've been called a certain thing over and over lately and it's offensive, could very well have said stop, it's upsetting me and you're picking on me.. And I know they've delighted in saying it too.. It's the same thing I've been accused of but the thing is and I know it annoys people, none of us are innocent which is why I have this oh fuck it attitude that may pee people off.. I think we need to learn how to move on better sometimes because as said, none of us can control this, none of us are innocent not a single person lol (and I include myself in this)... It's being us being human. And guess what I feel hurt, don't mean I'm gonna hate everyone for it, though sometimes I do lol. I get over it eventually, this just ebbs and flows. Don't see people as being bad if they hurt me though, that's just barmy I'm sorry. As said, in that case we must all be bad..
I'm gonna go cry in the corner..
